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Club Dance Partnering Level 1: Attraction Released!

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Just in time for summer! This is the beginning of the culmination of my work over the past several years. This is what I really want to introduce to the world. I've put in a lot of blood, sweat, and tears (literally!) into this. i've traveled all around the world testing it out.
For those of you who have been following me on Twitter, you've probably seen that I've gone from pretty much every night club/salsa club/dance lounge in Toronto to clubs all around the world. Besides clubs, I've made a point to learn more and test out my dancing wherever possible, including small town country hoedowns across the USA, to breaking language barriers with body language off the beaten track in South America, to island dancing in Hawaii, to Polka dancing at street Polish festivals, to impromptu outdoor socials (including a recent folk dance in Osaka, Japan, of all places). The list goes on and on.
I've danced it all. Tested in night clubs and socials in general, it WORKS. Tirelessly tested, both through myself and my students, over and over again, with the help of many, many women.

This is the real deal. Those of you who have been following me on twitter know I've been putting in the time and effort. I am monumentally proud of this release - this is the introduciton to the Club Dance Style I've been trying to create and promote and know will make a change on dance floors all around the world. Club Dance isn't so limited anymore. With the set of dance moves I introduce and break down, now it becomes fun while being easy to learn at the same time.
The journey's been fun and it's still ongoing. Level 1 Partnering is fun. I guarantee it. Enjoy it.
My sincere appreciation for all your kind words and ongoing support!
-Ki'une
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Every Time I Hear These Songs, I Dance
Besides the club songs I post in the VIP section, here are some songs, club and mostly non-club, that get me dancing. It's pretty varied and bridges across many dance styles, genres of music, cultures, and time periods - which is pretty important for me since club dancing extends beyond the confines of a nightclub and easily bridges into all social situations.
I particularly like funk - old school (James Brown), new school (Justice), electro funk, funk inspired songs, Brazilian funk, samba rock. Anything funk and disco will get me dancing.
This is just a sampling of the songs that get me dancing, something I wanted to share for fun, but I hope you discover something new in the playlist!
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Here's the song list in case the player doesn't show up.
Usher - Love In Da Club
Usher - Hey Daddy
Peter Andre - Mysterious Girl
James Brown - Get Up (Sex Machine)
Aventura - Solo Por Un Beso
Toby Love - Tengo Un Amor
Ivy Queen - Dime
Leona Lewis - Bleeding Love
Bajofondo - Pa Bailar
Club Des Belugas - Hip Hip Chin Chin
Aventura - Obsecion
Justice - DANCE
Justice - Genesis
Ne-Yo - Because Of You
Jet - Are You Gonna Be My Girl
Jet - Cold Hard Bitch
Daddy Yankee - Gasolina
Wisin Y Yandel - Noche De Dexo
Wisin Y Yandel - Yo Te Quiero
Junior Boys - In The Morning
Estelle feat. Kanye West - American Boy
The Doors - Peace Frog
Frank Sinatra - I Won't Dance
Frank Sinatra - The Way You Look Tonight
Tigerstyle - Nachna Onda Nei
Om Shanti Om - Dhoom Taana
Jay Chou - Grandfather's Tea
Marc Anthony - Tu Amor Me Hace Bien
Gouryella - Walhalla
David Guetta feat. Chris Williams - Love Is Gone
Frank Sinatra - I Won't Dance
Frank Sinatra - The Way You Look Tonight
Prince Royce - Stand By Me (Original Ben E. King version is great too)
Justice - One Minute To Midnight
GZA Genius - 0% Finance (not on the playlist)
Club Dance For Men Level 2: Confidence Finally Released!
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After a LOT of hard work, I'm very pleased to release Club Dance For Men Level 2: Confidence, the follow up to Club Dance For Men Level 1! Still designed for beginners, Level 2 builds on the fundamental moves covered in Level 1 and steps up the dancing a notch. Greater empahsis is put on creating movement, style, and musicality - be prepared to move your shoulders, hips, hands, and more!
Sorry it took so long for this release, but I've put a lot of time and thought into this DVD, and it shows - the DVD program runs over 3 hours long! I couldn't fit in any more material, so I plan on releasing more videos and thoughts via the included site access.
Again, all the material is based on my teaching experiences with actual students, as well as my own club dancing experiences, so everything shown is tried-true-and-tested.
Ideally, Club Dance For Men Level 2 is best paired with the upcoming Club Dance Partnering Level 1, which covers easy and fun partnering moves you can do in clubs and is great for single guys or couples. However, it won't be released for another month, but if you're on this email list or a member (by buying a Pickupdance product), you'll get a discount when it does release.
In the meantime, please enjoy Club Dance For Men Level 2: Confidence and become a confident dancer when you go out!
More importantly, a sincere thanks to you for your support and encouragement in all my work!
The Sunscreen Song - My 10 Year Tribute (Everybody's Free)
Hey Everyone!
I have to be honest. I've been sidetracked from releasing my second DVD set because of another project, which I'm sharing with you now. It's been an adventurous year for me, scary at times, but in the end, everything seems to work out OK. I also have you, my students, to thank, for the support and kind words I've received in my contributions to you.
It's also been 10 years since "The Sunscreen Song" was released and I wanted to squeeze a 10 year tribute in before the end of this year.
I made this video compiled from clips of my adventures and activities over the past few years. It's been 10 years since this song was released, I've never really gotten sick of it, and I guess wanted to share how I lived it out. I'm not trying to tell everyone to do everything possible, but rather inspire people to live more freely - and that you can start today by doing something simple, such as dancing in your living room!
Definitely, the "DANCE" part in the song really inspired me. I really wanted to communicate that I really enjoy dancing and I believe in what I teach - that dancing is fun, freeing, and something we should all give a try. I want to make dancing easy and available to everyone and have people dancing together and having fun all social situations. Please share it with anyone you think who would like seeing it.
Link To My 10-Year Tribute To The Sunscreen Song
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iJew4fxHl1U
Web Video Dance Lesson And Practice - Beginner Musicality
I've recorded and released a web lesson and dance practice to give you guys something to work with while I work furiously around the clock putting together my jam-packed Level 2 DVD! In the web lesson, I cover basic musicality to the song "Dangerous" by Kardinal Offishall featuring Akon. I've covered transitioning moves in my Level 1 DVD, but here it is put to use dancing to a real club song.
If you have a Youtube account, please show your support by rating my videos generously!
Click here to visit my Youtube channel.
Also, at the request of some students, I've put up a forum. It's empty right now because I'm super busy making a quality video for you guys (and girls), but I intend to get active on it once I release my Level 2 DVD.
If you're reading this article and are wondering how to get notified for more lessons, make sure you sign up on my email list!
Again, thanks for all your support!
The New Club Dance Style
I'm curious about something - why did disco die? Almost forty years ago, club dancing existed in the form of disco dancing (or nightclub dancing). It was cheesy, fun, and uninhibited. No matter how young you are, I'm sure you've come across a re-enactment dance of Saturday Night Fever or heard the songs "Stayin' Alive" or "I Will Survive" at some point in your life.
The disco and funk era was something for sure. I'm a big fan of the two genres, pulling lots of elements of their dance styles into my own dance style, particularly locking (a street dance style). In fact, when I talk to girls, I often mention that I should have grown up in the 70's. I'm still throw in arm rolls and pointing left, right, and center in heaps while I dance.
More importantly, guys and gals danced and interacted with each other on the dance floor through lots of partnering work. You could either do it freestyle, or pick up some formal moves from disco schools and learn "the hustle", "cha cha", or "touch style". Obviously, if you wanted to dance like John Travolta and be one up on the other guys, you would take some lessons, and of course, learn how to point with confidence.
Somehow, through the 80's and 90's, disco died, the partnering dance patterns disappeared and only reappeared in the form of swing and especially Latin. What was left in the clubs were guys giving girls awkward turns, twisting arms, and later on, just dirty grinding. There was a disco backlash that killed the music genre in North America for a while, but why did partner dancing in clubs fade away?
Was it too hard to learn? Not everyone wants to or can pick up dancing. With formal steps, it also becomes too rigid - ballroom dancing doesn't need to be revisited in the clubs.
Is it not in men's natures? Obviously, women go out for girl's night outs to dance while most men would definitely not be doing that - rather, hanging out at a sports bar, strip club, or watching the latest UFC event at a friend's house is the preferred choice. If guys are at the clubs, then it's only to get drunk enough to muster enough confidence to either 1) approach a girl 2) grind up against a girl 3) forget that they're there.
Maybe it was due to the popularity of breakdancing? I was watching the 80's move Back To The Future the other day, and a breakdancing (or breaking) scene made me notice that the 80's started to give way to hip hop culture and breaking. Somewhat male-oriented, girls in high heels and short skirts can only dance on the spot and watch on the edge of the dance circle. They can't even squat like the boys.
You could be the best breaker and dance a storm for all the girls to watch, but what they really want is part of the fun and action. I've seen and heard it many times. Guys who break, pop, and lock asking me what to do. Nothing wrong with breaking. I love it, but it doesn't work so well in clubs.
There could be many other reasons, but simply, partnered dancing in clubs simply died. However, thanks to recent dance shows like "Dancing With The Stars", "So You Think You Can Dance?", and ""America's Best Dance Crew", a resurgence of dance interest, particularly from girls, has ignited. Girls have always wanted to dance, but now the pressure's on for guys to dance. All the partnering and flirting of dancing with the opposite sex is coming back and I want to be on the front lines making it happen.
I don't call it Nightclub Dancing anymore, so it's not confused with Disco Dancing, but simply Club Dancing. Club Dancing, or what I call the Club Dance Style, is simply taking basic street moves (which I mostly cover in my Level 1 DVD) and mixing it with some time-honored and some new partnering moves. For example, taking some cuban salsa turn patterns while doing lyrical hip hop movements.
We're not competing for a dance show, so I want to keep my Club Dance Style as freestyle as possible, meaning to minimize the formal steps while maximizing the fun factor. Keep your eye on it. If all the guys following my dance lessons pick it up, you'll see it show up in a club or social near you.
Dance Adventure Updates And Twitter
I have to apologize for not blogging in a while, but my reasons are good. I've taken and tested my dance moves all over North America - from the hottest nightclubs in Las Vegas to the more laid back venues in Waikiki, Hawaii to the friendly country clubs in the eastern Maritime provinces of Canada. Of course, all the while I've thrown in some of my favorite hobbies - surfing, rock climbing, and random travel adventures - for good measure.
Now that I'm back in Toronto, I can reflect on my experiences and report the good news. If you're just looking to get comfortable, then for sure, the basic moves covered in my Beginner's Level 1 DVD will work. Sometimes, I show up at a club winded or get tired quickly if it's packed and stuffy. During those times, I'll switch to those basic moves to keep moving to the rhythm or to build my state back up.
Of course, it's also my job to step it up a notch, so during my travels abroad, I've visited classy nightclubs, tourist hot spots, smaller venues for locals, salsa scenes, clique Asian parties, reggae beach parties, dances in public squares, street dancing at festivals, wedding crashing, impromptu dancing on the subway, you name it. The moves I have planned for the Level 2 and Level 3 series work great, while I've also acquired a few extra moves I plan on developing. In general, no matter where I am, people are generally out to have a good time and dancing is definitely a unifying activity.
I've
filmed much of the material for the Level 2 series, which covers more styling moves and ways to lead a girl, and given the good response I've had for it, it looks like I might become a hermit for a short period while I do some serious editing to bring it out. The good news is that for any of you who have Twitter, I've just joined it so you can follow me and get any tips that come to mind in real-time. If you dont have it, I put a Twitter feed badge on the pickupdance.com website so you can visit the site and see my Twitter updates (tweets). Click here to see and follow my tweets.
Note that I'm also a personal development enthusiast, so you'll also get a slice of wisdom with an adventurous touch on the side (I loosely keep another blog at www.risingbean.com). But hey, after all, isn't learning how to dance personal development?
Club Dance For Men Level 1 - Beginner's DVD Released!
Hey Guys,
Thanks for all your patience in waiting for me to release my first DVD! I put a lot of hard work into it and hope it will help you guys on your way to being better dancers! To show my appreciation, here's a special link to purchase the Beginners DVD set at a discount:
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"Build Rhythm, Comfort, And Attraction On The Dance Floor Today!"
Believe it or not, you can learn to dance! The dance system taught on this DVD was created from learning and combining years of experience in different dance styles, spending countless (but enjoyable!) hours in the club refining the moves, and most importantly, actually teaching guys how to dance in clubs! Watch, learn, and step up your dancing today!
This no-frills beginner series features:
- Basic rhythm exercises
- Easy dance moves to get you moving
- Important practice sessions you can repeat
- Several different music styles played in clubs
- Demos of dance moves with girls
- Bonus moves to step up your dancing once you have the basics down
Includes a reference card (with 4 extra copies) you can keep in your wallet in case you need to be reminded of the moves you've learned!
Also included is access to the site where bonus beginner lessons will be made available
Keep Your Pockets Lean And Clean Looking
Unless man purses come into fashion, we're dealing with more and more junk to carry around these days - wallets, iPods, cell phones, Blackberries, PDA's, etc. Pockets bulging in the wrong places are unsightly. You want as clean of a look as possible on your pants as possible and leave the bulging to where it's relevant. Here are some tips on keeping your pockets lean and clean without having to resort to vertically striped pants.
1. Your wallet. You don't want a thick wallet. It screams someone with too many burdens, an overzealous World of Warcraft player, or an obsessive-compulsive packrat. Really go through your wallet. Toss as much as you can. Throw out old receipts. Cancel excessive credit cards. Burn that VIP membership card to hotbabesXXX.com. When you're done, it'll feel really good. If you really have trouble pruning, buy a thin secondary wallet or money clip used for you go out and transfer only the essentials: cash in larger denominations, one credit card, driver's license.
2. Loose change. Get rid of it. I keep anything under a quarter in change in a jar. Every few months, I take the jar and take it to a Coinstar machine at a local bank. I don't get charged for using it. Most Coinstar machines charge 9% which is quite a lot if you're converting months worth of change. I know some machines don't levy the commission if you use them towards a gift certificate to specific retail stores.
3. Breath Fresheners. Gum, Pocket Paks, mints, etc. You need to carry a pack of these no matter what - bad breath is your enemy. I've had varying experience with different kinds, though I generally stay away from the mini spray canisters and stick gum because the paper packaging makes them vulnerable to heat. Listerine Pocket Paks take up the least space though I find the traditional tablet gum lasts the longest.
4. Keys. You really only need your car and house keys. Keep them on a detachable so you only go out with those. I have a fat car alarm pager, but I substitute it with a tiny secondary pager that doesn't have the paging function. I know German car owners have thick fob keys - I'm not sure if there are any smaller alternatives to those.
5. Cell phones. These days, phones are cheap. You can easily get a thin flip phone for under $50 off craigslist, Kijiji, or eBay. You need your phone of course to collect numbers, so like gum, you need to reserve a spot for it. Make sure the phone has the ability to store and transfer interesting photos from your computer. I put my rock climbing and recent travel photos on my phone. When meeting new people, photos are a great communication tool. The iPhone is great because you can play your own videos, though in context with this article, I'm not a huge fan of it because of its size.
Note: Playing videos of you biking down the World's Most Dangerous Road in Bolivia is cool. Playing viral Youtube videos that everyone has seen before is not cool.
Extra Note: Never wear your phone on the outside of your pants on a clip. I know it's really convenient, but in terms of style, it's an eyesore.
6. PDA's and Blackberries. PDA's can be left at home. If your phone is GSM enabled, then get a small flip phone and swap your SIM card over to it for when you go out. Staring at your phone and punching away at it like a Gameboy all night in a club has lost it's cool. For many, the Blackberry is your phone, camera, organizer, GPS, etc. I like the all-in-one concept, which really helps save pocket space, though I'm scared of its addictive Crackberry properties.
Reminder Note: Never wear your phone or Blackberry on the outside of your pants on a clip. I need to re-emphasize this because it's like the fashion faux-pas of wearing a t-shirt under a shirt.
7. Digital cameras. I used to carry one around when I first starting going out to clubs a lot to "track my progress" - it was encouraging. After a while, I stopped carrying one around because of the pocket burden. Now, I occasionally carry one to film some rough live footage of my dancing. If your camera has a decent camera with a mini-flash on it, this is probably the better way to go. After a while, club photos with random hot women and friends all look the same. This one's up to you though. If you really love pictures, then by all means bring a camera. Just try to get a model as thin and slim as possible. I know Canon, Sony, and Casio all carry pretty thin models.
Exceptions. If you have a medical condition that forces you to carry medicine, inhalers, etc that fatten your wallet, then by all means carry these items. If your pockets are getting bloated by these or of the above items, I have seen some decent looking waist bags that hang stylishly off your belt, and don't look like purses. I've seen overpriced Gucci waist bags, but since waist bags are popular in Asian culture, I know some Japanese fashion stores carry Japanese men's Hanpu waist bags that carry the same function and look even better.
Also, you might consider wearing a sports jacket or a heavily pocketed military style jacket as part of your club wear to get more carrying capacity. Just remember, the clubs get hot. I love how a jacket or club blazer looks, but it doesn't combine well with dancing unless you sweat very little and have a high tolerance for heat.
It's A Lot Like The Movie Hitch - Why Women Find Dancing Attractive
Someone told me something interesting this past Saturday night. I usually wear a custom shirt with my URL embroidered on the back of my shirt when I go out.
After watching me dance, an intrigued girl watching me asked me about my business. After I told her, she remarked that it was very much like the Will Smith's character in Hitch.
I've never made that connection before, but now that I think about it, what I do is a LOT like that dance scene from the movie Hitch. I watch guys dance, correct their faults (including cheesy dance moves!), and advise them to stick to the basics at the beginning. Of course, there is the exception that we go beyond basic moves and build up to more advanced techniques and styling at a comfortable pace.
But here's the best part. I feel like my students are like the great guys/students from Hitch - they're definitely the guys women want to meet. If you're a guy who wants to make some change in your life and learn dance, it subcommunicates a lot to women. By subcommunication, I mean that it's showing attractive qualities about a guy without being direct about it.
If you're direct about your "attractive" qualities, that is, you go on and on about empty bragging rights such as your fancy car, large house, high-paying job, etc., you might need to re-evaulate yourself and your ego. For most women I've encountered - I'd say over 95% - bragging is a major turn-off. If you dance, or even tell a woman that you're learning how to dance, then it subcommunicates so much more and leaves much to the imagination. It tells her indirectly that you're someone who is interested in self-improvement.
If you dance, good or bad, it tells her that you have a healthy amount of confidence. The funny thing about dancing and confidence is that if you don't have too much of it, the more you dance, the more confident you get. This can be applied to pretty much any social skill. For example, I had a similar experience with Toastmasters and public speaking.
Dancing also tells women indirectly that you like to try new things and have fun, which says a lot about a person's character. Most guys who can't dance aren't afraid to confess that they're bad dancers - in fact, it seems like a macho thing to be a guy who doesn't dance - but the special ones do something about it.
Women complain to me all the time about not meeting the right guys. Ladies, guys who love dancing are the ones you're looking for, and I'm not saying this to advertise myself. Just watch out for the cocky dancer with the abnormally large ego. These guys are rare though and easy to spot, because they're body language or insincere smile can be read like an open book. This is a whole other story though.
I'm no Will Smith, but I do want the best for my students. When I hear the feedback I get from my students, I know I'm onto something. Thanks guys!








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